I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month and we have a great time together. But he has a girlfriend he’s been with for two months. He keeps saying he’ll leave her for me and that he just needs to find the right time, as he wants to stay friends with her. Should I end it?
There isn’t much to end, is there? After only two months – one of those months shared with two women – he’s hardly a major investor in either relationship. As for his wanting ‘the right time’ to break up and stay friends, when does he think that could happen? And when she finds out he’s been seeing you, friendship isn’t likely. Draw back and let him settle his own affairs before he involves you in one with him.